Victor Davis Lenz

Thoughts are what every person has when they are alive. You and every other human on this
planet has thoughts that run through our brains every single day without
stopping. If we didn’t have the ability to think we would not be able to
function in our bodies. We would be dead if we could not think. Unfortunately,
many people have negative thoughts that they always think and believe. All of
us think negatively from time to time but some other people have chronic
negative thoughts that cripple their ability to succeed and live a rewarding
life. Even I had negative thoughts today. Sometimes I wonder because of the
failing United States economy are we supposed to just exist until we die. It is
very tough to not think like this when there is so much uncertainty about the
economy and these conditions are hurting the American middle class intensely.
Okay, that’s enough about the economy because I know that I’m digressing a
little bit here. Are you with me so far?

My point was that
there are people who for whatever reason have these chronic negative thoughts
inside of them. They constantly think of the worst possible things that could
happen to them and they sabotage their chances for success without even
realizing that fact. This is the way a negative person is used to thinking
unless they change their habits. I am not a life and wellness coach but I do
know how bad negative thoughts are. Negative thoughts are dangerous and evil
and they will latch on to anyone that allows these thoughts to latch onto them.
This is not a joke. Negative thinkers have a very poor self-esteem and they do
not have any ambition. Negative thinkers are more likely to get sick and suffer
illnesses than a positive person. I am not saying that positive people do not
have “bad” things happen to them. Even the positive people have certain
setbacks in their life. I have had the setback of losing my job and I haven’t
had a real job for a while but the economic conditions have made it more
challenging to find jobs. I will find another job eventually because that’s my
belief. I do accept the fact that times are tough now but I will get back into
the workforce. Do you see where I am going with this?

You have got to
accept the reality of your personal situation while also having faith that your
situation will improve and that is what is most important. Faith is what can
keep you going in tough times. You have got to be prepared for the long road to
getting yourself back into the workforce because times are not what they used
to be. Let me emphasize this point once again that it is never too late to
change your habits if you have been a negative thinker especially for a long
time. Your life is just like a movie because it keeps playing every day and you
can change how you see the pictures of your life. Start thinking positive when
you wake up in the morning as this will create a much better day for you. And
try as hard as you can to not watch the news in the morning please. There is
just too much negativity on the television these days and the negative news are
what get the most attention. Feed your mind something positive that makes you
feel good. Trust me on this one because you will feel better if you do that.

Believe me I know
very well that because of the failing economy and the major drop in the stock
market that people are very worried and scared of the future. Things do not
seem to be looking good right now. But I think that if we constantly focus on
the negative things in our lives, which are not a very constructive way of
thinking we will ruin ourselves. The problem is that this negativity is so pervasive that it has
become part of American culture. People think negatively because that is what
they are used to doing. Yes it is true that times are very tough right now. But
there’s no sense in sitting around and being in a sour mood all day. Besides,
the more negative that you are the more likely you will be to attract those
kinds of people into your life and that’s not what you want is it? That’s why
you are reading this. You are reading this because you are focused on living a
life of happiness, prosperity and success. Positive thinking has enabled me to
cure a sore throat and a clogged up ear all without having to step in to a
doctor’s office!

Let me say again
that no matter how hard we try, all of us will have some negative thoughts. The
hard part is being able to recognize that they are negative and trying to catch
them when we do notice this happening. One of the best medicines that you can
use I your life is a positive attitude. Positive attitudes have the power to
heal you like you would never believe. Positive attitudes work like magic if
they are used consistently. Even if you do not have a job right now, looking
for a job is like a job also. If you start a website or a blog, that is also
just like a job because you are at least working towards increasing your
knowledge and skills. That’s exactly what I am doing right now. I will be
working just about every day to put as much content on this website as
possible.

I would encourage
all of you to leave comments for me and let us go through this journey called
life and make life the best that it can possibly be. I’m willing to work with
those that are focused and dedicated to making sure this world is a better
place by spreading as much positivity as they can. Let’s get started everyone!
Let’s start today by thinking positive always no matter what. And even if you
do get down sometimes, you can always change your mood in an instant. You have
the power to change your life for the better and by reading this blog post you
are taking at least one step in the right direction.

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How to control those negative thoughts

I am going to ask you to something very weird right now. First of all, I want you to listen to your thoughts. (DANIEL BETTER)

Now tell me, what thoughts fill your head? Would you label them as positive, or negative?

If you ran into someone on the street, do you think they will have any indication of what is on your mind?

The answer to number one is up to you. But, the answer number two can be pretty generic. Although people will not be able to tell you exactly what you think, they will more or less have an idea of how you are feeling.

Here's another question. If you enter a social gathering with many of your friends, do they all of a sudden become quiet as if something bad has transpired? Or is the response quite different where they all perk up like they are anticipating that something exciting is going to happen?

Guess what?Answers to all of these questions will difer greatly depending on your mindset. Thoughts are very powerful. They affect your general attitude. Whether you realize it or not, your frame of mind or attitude reflects your appearance also! that is, unless you are an exceptional actor.

And it doesn't end there. Your attitude can also affect people around you.

Your attitude and how you carry yourself as a result depends solely on you. It can be either positive or negative.

Positive thoughts have a filling effect. They are admittedly invigorating. Plus, the people around the person carrying positive thoughts are usually energized by this type of attitude.

On the other hand, negative thoughts generally have a sapping effect on those around you. Not only do your negative thoughts make you look sad and gloomy, they can turn what is meant to be a festive and joyful get-together into what more closely resembles a funeral wake.A positive attitude attracts people, while a negative attitude repels them. People tend to shy away from those who carry a negative attitude.

We can also define attitude as the way of looking at the world. If it is your decision to focus on the negative things in the world as is the case for so many today, you are actually brewing up a negative attitude. However, if you choose to focus on the positive things, you are more likely carry a positive attitude.

There is so much for you to gain from having a positive attitude. For one, studies have shown that a positive attitude promotes better health. Secondly, those that have this type of attitude always have many more friends. Stress is also handled much better by those who have a positive attitude than those with a negative one.

A positive attitude begins with a healthy self-image. If you will love the way you are and are satisfied, confident, and self-assured, you also make others are around feel the same way.

A negative attitude, on the other hand, has, of course, an opposite effect. Therefore, a twofold drawback is carried with a negative attitude. You feel bad about yourself, and you make others feel the same way.

You need to think healthy thoughts in order to have a positive attitude. This is probably very hard to do nowadays since, all around us, the media feeds us nothing but negative thoughts. There was a study done that concluded that for every 14 things a parent says to their child, unfortunately only one is positive. This is truly a saddening thought.

If you want a healthier outlook in life, you need to think happy thoughts, and you have to hear positive things as well. Let's take a step back now and decide what we can do to make this happen. Well, for starters, you could see a funny movie, you could play with children, spend some time telling jokes with friends. All these activities fill you with positive stimuli, which in turn promotes positive attitude.

Even though it is nearly impossible to totally eliminate all negative things around us on a daily basis, you can still focus on the positive and good things in life and in turn carry a positive attitude.And this positive attitude you now carry can be of benefit to other people. The thing most do to try to help those who are feeling down is to give them advice. Sometimes though, all that is needed is an ear to listen to them and support them. If you have a positive attitude you may be able to cheer them up without even having to say anything.

Why do people make the choice to have a negative attitude when a positive attitude carries with it so many benefits. Many times a negative attitude is adopted by someone who is looking for attention. Before you get me wrong, feeling sad, angry, or gloomy is not wrong itself. But dwelling on these thoughts for far too long is not healthy either. There is a time to mourn.

As always, if you are beset by troubles, even in your darkest hour, focus on the good things in life, you will always have hope. Problems become something you can overcome.
There is absolutley nothing to lose by adopting a positive and healthy attitude. Studies show that such an attitude actually retards aging, makes you healthier, helps you develop a better stress coping mechanism, and has a very positive effect on all the people you meet every day. With that said, there is nothing not to like about a positive attitude! Focus on good and positive things today

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The power of POSITIVE ATTITUDE

The following self improvement tips will aid you in your efforts to begin your personal development endeavours.( Daniel Better)

You will find yourself achieving new levels of fulfillment by incorporating them into your daily life. If personal development and growth interests you, there is a good chance you are constantly looking for reliable techniques that will stimulate your progression. Any tactics that can kickstart your personal growth and show you fast results would be fondly looked upon.

After years of study in the self improvement arena, I have found the following strategies to be invaluable. Any chance I can give back to others that have that same thirst to better themselves, I consider it a privilege knowing that I was once in the exact same place.

Expect to Achieve

While many think that the majority of people who are successful in the world are smarter than they are, that simply is not the case. The real secret here is to expect to win before it has ever happened. I can’t stress enough how important this is. Your mindset has a hugely powerful effect on whether or not you will attain your dreams and goals.

Note that I didn’t say you need knowledge to win, because the fact of the matter is having a bold and determined expectancy goes a lot further than actually having the knowledge. The knowledge will come with conviction and persistence.

Keep a Daily Journal

You will be hardpressed to find an ultra successful person who doesn’t adopt a personal daily journal. We can’t keep track of everything that passes through our minds and this is when a journal comes in extremely handy. Whenever something strikes you as something you would like to do, accomplish or feel passionate about, get in the habit of writing it down. It will give you a sense of self-awareness and will skyrocket your confidence in yourself.

Meditation

Known to be a fabulous stress reliever not to mention the other health benefits like aiding in digestion and even slowing your heart rate, this is one of the most overlooked of the techniques even though it could very well be one of the most important. It drastically helps in avoiding worries and anxiety because it clears your mind of all the negative thoughts useless thoughts that we all feel from time to time. Your sleep will be more restful and it will help you make the most of the other techniques shared here.

Write Action Plans & Specific Goals

The simple act of putting pen to paper has a dramatic effect on clarifying your goals and aids with the expectancy I talked about earlier. This habit of writing down goals is mandatory if you want to actually achieve those goals. Dreaming is one thing, doing is quite another. All of these written goals should lead you to your ultimate long term goal and perfect life.

Daily Affirmations

Getting in the habit of reading aloud positive affirmations each and every day will lierally change your character, your personality and ultimately change the actions you take every day of your life. I have found that reading these out loud when I get up in the morning and before I go to bed at night to work very well. You can’t help but change your inner self by doing this religiously every day.

Be Well Rounded

All areas of your life are affected by all other areas of your life. By that I mean, if you have bad relationships for example, your finances and even your health will suffer also. Problems in your relationships, your health or finances will zap the necessary energy to make the most out of all of these areas of your life. Personal development and success will become much more difficult as a result.

In order to accomplish great things, living a balanced life is so important, a life of great emotional fortitude, financial security and physical stamina. Be well rounded in all of these areas and you will inevitably reap the rewards.

To great success in your life!

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6 Simple Self Improvement Tips

You must never doubt yourself if you want to achieve self development. Failure is the reward for those who have the audacity to- (extracted from book by STEPHEN KAVITA)

Self development experts say that your actions are a true reflection of your thinking. This is to say that your attitude matters a lot. Personal attitude makes all the difference between a winner in life and a loser. It is further said that you can change anything and everything if you change your mind set. What the mind has decided the body cannot defy.

Hence you must never doubt yourself if you want to achieve self development. Failure is the reward for those who have the audacity to demean themselves. If you do not value and respect yourself then no one will respect you. Thus your first step in becoming a winner in life is by admiring your strengths and knowing that you deserve the good things in life.

Nevertheless, confidence and self-assurance are not in themselves adequate. You need to have a plan of action, a strategy for attaining self development. Careful planning, rationality and creativity are the irreplaceable ingredients required at every facet of life in order to achieve success in life. Not forgetting to take action in whatever you set to do.

Many people fail because of not taking action. Therefore, if you have a vision and a good plan remember to strategize on how you are going to act on it. As the say "Procrastination is the thief of time". Hence you will need to do what you can today and not tomorrow if you are to attain self development. In reality 'tomorrow' never comes.

In any case, the best preparation for tomorrow is by doing your best today and with the available resources. Also failure comes sooner to those who wait for the perfect opportunities since they will never come.

To be a winner in life is really therefore a matter of knowing what you want and going right for it. Never hesitate to seize an opportunity; you might pay with your life thus the secret of self development.

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Self Development And How To Be A Winner in Life

If you wish to improve your self esteem, you most likely are confused as a result of all the various advice these days about how to achieve this Several training seminars, literature and television shows aim to aid in increasing self esteem, but the tips probably won't connect with everybody. The actual option for boosting your self esteem ought to be unique to who you really are. (from book of - DANIEL BETTER)

First of all, understand that you happen to be unlike all others. Acknowledging this is basically the first and most vital way to improve your self-confidence. This approach achieves a few things. First of all, you get rid of targets that you've affixed to yourself to be similar to everybody else.

Many times, individuals wish to improve their self-confidence, however , what that signifies in their mind is they wish to project the identical form of self esteem that they see other individuals possessing, and so they desire to act just how those people do. When you accept you're distinct from other people, it takes the stress off of you in order to somehow acquire something that you do not look and act a manner in which is not really natural for you personally.

Many of us have got preconceived ideas of exactly what self-confidence appears like. Many of us try to make ourselves and everybody else fit a specific profile. For example, we think that confident people are constantly extroverted. This is merely not true. People become all the more frustrated and lose even more confidence in their selves when they're made to feel as if they just can’t have the ability to feel the way that everyone else does. The fact is that self esteem is all about becoming comfortable with who you really are, in spite of your past and to boost your confidence, you must know just how truly amazing your are.

Individuals get self-confidence and a number of character traits confused. Outgoing people could be outgoing naturally or may possibly talk a great deal to hide their nervousness, however that doesn't mean they are comfortable. Alternatively, a person who is normally introverted could be very confident in who he or she is. Hence, don't look at transforming your self to resemble others who you perceive to be self-confident. Rather, concentrate on realizing whom you are and becoming comfortable with that.

That will help you drastically to improve your self esteem.

In many cases, people have reasons why they are not at ease with them selves. What they might not realize is the fact that there could be things which must be altered in their life, and there's reasons exactly why they can not be happy with who they may be. Maybe there are specific elements in your individuality that you should work on or specific characteristics that you have or do not have that may be stopping you moving forward from feeling good. Dealing with genuine characteristics that need to be altered differs from needing to change whom you are.

If you're not confident due to the fact you are constantly showing up late to almost everything, for example, it is not good advice to simply accept who you are and never compare yourself to others. The simple truth is, this personality trait needs to be changed, and when you alter this you will feel happier in relation to your self. You are not changing who you are, merely working on enhancing whom you already are.

The actual lesson to take away from this information is to not change yourself but to become the best version of your self possible. Too many people observe someone else’s confidence and think we have to be exactly like they are to feel better about ourself - more attractive, more outgoing or what ever the case may be. The actual truth is that, to improve your self esteem, the actual secret is in feeling that great about yourself.

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Improve your self esteem

Personality is an interesting subject, and not a topic I wanted to cover until I had thoroughly done my research. After-all, even just the word ‘personality’ means a lot of different things to a lot of different people. Our personality actually plays a huge part in how we perceive the world and how the world perceives us so I think it is an important subject to cover.

This is all about living the life you want to live and being who you want to be and I think it’s safe to say that we each view someone’s personality as a large part of what makes them who they are. With that in mind, let’s look at how you can change yours for your own benefit.

What is Our Personality?

I searched around for some definitions of this term and I have to say that my favourite is rather basic: “A set of qualities that make a person distinct from another”. Nice, simple, to the point and the exact definition that I’ve come to think the word means through my 19 years of existence.

On top of that statement, I, like many others, believe that our personality includes our beliefs and values so this is the understanding of the word I’m going to use here. Feel free to substitute your own definition and still go through the process towards the middle of this post.

How It Is Formed

Your current personality, whatever it may be, has been formed in a number of ways. Psychologists have studied human personalities for years and have come to a number of conclusions. First of all, it is believed that certain traits in our character are hereditary, yet things like our values and beliefs are derived from socialization and unique experiences, mostly from childhood.

Based on that statement, it’s likely that the personality of you and anyone you know is based on:

Social experiences (especially from childhood)

Unique experiences that you have had in your lifetime

The environment in which you grew up and how you had to act

While most of this might seem obvious, there is some strong research which suggests that a lot of our current personality is in-fact, genetic. As an example, researchers from the University of Minnesota studied 8,000 twins who had been separated shortly after birth and reunited later in life for whatever reason. They found that even though one of the twins may have lived a completely different live in a different environment, their behaviours were still almost identical.

I don’t think I like the idea that our personality and specifically our behaviours are largely proven to be based around our genetic make-up. That being said, I still believe it is entirely possible to change your personality and literally be whoever you want to be.

Designing your Own Personality

Before continuing with the following steps on designing your own personality, spend a few minutes thinking of the personalities of people in your life. I have some close friends that I know whenever I see them they will cheer me up because they are happy and very positive. On the other hand, I also have friends that are close, but I can always predict how they will react in certain situations and it is usually in a negative manner.

I think all of you can relate to my situation of having friends who you love to be around and other friends who you do care about, but make you feel ‘drained’ when you spend time with them.

The whole point of this post and personality development in general is to develop the characteristics you want to have rather than the ones you’ve been conditioned with.

Following are four steps that I have personally used in the past month to help bring about a change in my own personality that have allowed me to literally be the type of person I want to be. If you are just a skim reader, do not take any advice in this post. The sections in bold need their descriptions to be read in order to have this process result in the kind of personality that you want.

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Personality Development: Be Who You Want to Be

What is Our Personality?

How It Is Formed

Based on that statement, it’s likely that the personality of you and anyone you know is based on:

Social experiences (especially from childhood)

Unique experiences that you have had in your lifetime

The environment in which you grew up and how you had to act

Designing your Own Personality

I think all of you can relate to my situation of having friends who you love to be around and other friends who you do care about, but make you feel ‘drained’ when you spend time with them.

The whole point of this post and personality development in general is to develop the characteristics you want to have rather than the ones you’ve been conditioned with.

Friendship quotes:

A friend is someone who is there for you when he’d rather be somewhere else.

Only your real friends tell you when your face is dirty.
The best way to destroy an enemy is to make him a friend.

- Abraham Lincoln

Friends are God’s way of taking care of us.
Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Some stay for awhile and leave footprints on our hearts. And we are never, ever the same.
Friendship isn’t a big thing – it’s a million little things.
A road to a friend’s house is never long.
I’ve always said that in politics, your enemies can’t hurt you, but your friends will kill you.

- Ann Richards

Count your age with friends but not with years.
One who looks for a friend without faults will have none.
A true friend sticks with you through thick and thin no matter what.
The most I can do for my friend is simply be his friend.

- Henry David Thoreau

An honest answer is the sign of true friendship.
When a friend is in trouble, don’t annoy him by asking if there is anything you can do. Think up something appropriate and do it.

- Edgar Watson Howe

Friendship is love without his wings!

- Lord Byron

Friendship doubles your joys, and divides your sorrows.
One loyal friend is worth ten thousand relatives.

- Euripides

When you die, if you’ve got five real friends, then you’ve had a great life.
True friendship is when two friends can walk in opposite directions, yet remain side by side.
If I had to sum up friendship in one word, it would be comfort.

- Terri Guillemets

Your friend is the person who knows all about you, and still like you.
A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.

- Walter Winchell

True friendship is like sound health, the value of it is seldom known until it be lost.

- Charles Caleb Colton

Everyone is a friend, until they prove otherwise.
Friends are the most important ingredient in this recipe of life.
What is a friend? A single soul dwelling in two bodies.

- Aristotle

To be depressed is to be lonely; to have a friend is to be happy.
Who finds a faithful friend, finds a treasure.
Side by side or miles apart, dear friends are always close to the heart.
In my friend, I find a second self.

- Isabel Norton

Friends never make assumptions about you. They never expect a reason to go out with you. In fact friends only expect you to be you.
Your friends are what will matter in the end.

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Feirndship Quotes

Friendship quotes:

A friend is someone who is there for you when he’d rather be somewhere else.

Only your real friends tell you when your face is dirty.
The best way to destroy an enemy is to make him a friend.

- Abraham Lincoln

Friends are God’s way of taking care of us.
Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Some stay for awhile and leave footprints on our hearts. And we are never, ever the same.
Friendship isn’t a big thing – it’s a million little things.
A road to a friend’s house is never long.
I’ve always said that in politics, your enemies can’t hurt you, but your friends will kill you.

- Ann Richards

Count your age with friends but not with years.
One who looks for a friend without faults will have none.
A true friend sticks with you through thick and thin no matter what.
The most I can do for my friend is simply be his friend.

- Henry David Thoreau

An honest answer is the sign of true friendship.
When a friend is in trouble, don’t annoy him by asking if there is anything you can do. Think up something appropriate and do it.

- Edgar Watson Howe

Friendship is love without his wings!

- Lord Byron

Friendship doubles your joys, and divides your sorrows.
One loyal friend is worth ten thousand relatives.

- Euripides

When you die, if you’ve got five real friends, then you’ve had a great life.
True friendship is when two friends can walk in opposite directions, yet remain side by side.
If I had to sum up friendship in one word, it would be comfort.

- Terri Guillemets

Your friend is the person who knows all about you, and still like you.
A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.

- Walter Winchell

True friendship is like sound health, the value of it is seldom known until it be lost.

- Charles Caleb Colton

Everyone is a friend, until they prove otherwise.
Friends are the most important ingredient in this recipe of life.
What is a friend? A single soul dwelling in two bodies.

- Aristotle

To be depressed is to be lonely; to have a friend is to be happy.
Who finds a faithful friend, finds a treasure.
Side by side or miles apart, dear friends are always close to the heart.
In my friend, I find a second self.

- Isabel Norton

Friends never make assumptions about you. They never expect a reason to go out with you. In fact friends only expect you to be you.
Your friends are what will matter in the end.

Cute Sayings:

No guy is worth your tears & the one who is won’t make you cry.

The two most common elements in the world are hydrogen and stupidity.
The worst way to miss someone, is to have them sitting right next to you & you know you can never have them.
Always laugh when you can. It is cheaper than medicine…
Alter your attitude and you can alter your life.
All kids are gifted; some just open their packages earlier than others.
Men are like roses, watch out for all of the pricks.
Suicide is away of telling God, You can’t fire me I quit !!!!!
Life is a lesson you’ll learn it when you’re through.
Win as if you were used to it, lose as if you enjoyed it for a change.
Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift. That’s why we call it the present.
Adults are just kids with money.
In order to be someone, you must first be yourself.
The worst kind of love is the one when you want someone but you know you can’t have them.
If love isn’t a game, then why are there so many players ?
We make a living by what we get, we make a life by what we give.
Don’t waste your time on a guy that isn’t willing to waste his time on you.
Never take life seriously. Nobody gets out alive anyways.
A friend is one who knows us, but loves us anyway.
A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.
Count your age with friends but not with years.
Nothing improves the memory more than trying to forget.
Insanity is hereditary you get it from your kids.
A person who never makes mistakes never makes anything.
If you think you can, you can. And if you think you cant, youre right!
Never look back unless youre planning to go that way.
Always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them so much.
Half of the people in the world are below average.
If you love somebody, set them free. If they return, they were always yours. If they don’t, they never were.

The best proof of love is trust.
Where there is great love, there are always wishes.
Better to light a candle than to curse the darkness.
Anyone can hate. It costs to love.
Have the courage to live. Anyone can die.
Having nothing, nothing can you lose.
Don’t drown the man who taught you to swim

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Cute Sayings:

No guy is worth your tears & the one who is won’t make you cry.

The two most common elements in the world are hydrogen and stupidity.
The worst way to miss someone, is to have them sitting right next to you & you know you can never have them.
Always laugh when you can. It is cheaper than medicine…
Alter your attitude and you can alter your life.
All kids are gifted; some just open their packages earlier than others.
Men are like roses, watch out for all of the pricks.
Suicide is away of telling God, You can’t fire me I quit !!!!!
Life is a lesson you’ll learn it when you’re through.
Win as if you were used to it, lose as if you enjoyed it for a change.
Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift. That’s why we call it the present.
Adults are just kids with money.
In order to be someone, you must first be yourself.
The worst kind of love is the one when you want someone but you know you can’t have them.
If love isn’t a game, then why are there so many players ?
We make a living by what we get, we make a life by what we give.
Don’t waste your time on a guy that isn’t willing to waste his time on you.
Never take life seriously. Nobody gets out alive anyways.
A friend is one who knows us, but loves us anyway.
A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.
Count your age with friends but not with years.
Nothing improves the memory more than trying to forget.
Insanity is hereditary you get it from your kids.
A person who never makes mistakes never makes anything.
If you think you can, you can. And if you think you cant, youre right!
Never look back unless youre planning to go that way.
Always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them so much.
Half of the people in the world are below average.
If you love somebody, set them free. If they return, they were always yours. If they don’t, they never were.

How to Increase Your Laptop Battery Life

Normally our laptop have battery life of 2 year. If you don’t take care of battery the life of battery will reduce from 2 year . Here are some important tips for increase the life of laptop battery. How do you keep your battery going for as long as possible?
Don’t charge your laptop constantly. Specially the overcharging of battery degrades its performance.
Create better power plan with power management tool inside your OS.
Keep your laptop battery cool. Batteries degrade more quickly when they’re hot.Don’t put your laptop on a pillow or a cushioned surface that will keep heat inside.
Once in month discharge the full battery and plug in laptop for full charge.
Adding more RAM will consume more energy, so this is most applicable if you do need to run memory intensive programs which actually require heavy usage of virtual memory.
If you have a consistent power supply you can apply this trick, remove your battery from laptop and work on AC power.
Clean your battery’s metal contacts every couple of months with a cloth moistened with rubbing alcohol. This keeps the transfer of power from your battery more efficient.
Hibernate your laptop than putting in stand-by mode.It saving more power than stand-by.Hibernating a PC will actually save your PC’s state as it is, and completely shut itself down.
Remove the laptop battery if you’re not using the laptop for a long time ( above 5 days )
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Today I'm going to Introduce a software which is likely a small and can make awesome viruses ( ofcourse you can code them as you like)

very easy to create
easy to use

D O W N L O A D
CAUTION:

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Make your Own Virus

Make your Own Virus:

Today I'm going to Introduce a software which is likely a small and can make awesome viruses ( ofcourse you can code them as you like)

very easy to create
easy to use

D O W N L O A D
CAUTION:

Disable your antivirus before downloading.
Dont execute the file on your PC.
Exercise before any spreading.

How to attract a girl....Let's Do it....

Every woman is different; if they were all alike, you wouldn't be interested in this one in particular, now would you? There are as many different ways to attract a women as there are women, so let's go over some basic rules that will win over any woman worth getting

Have your own life. If you tend to fall into the "friend zone", this is especially important. Real girls don't like guys who have no lives, and who cling to them like plastic wrap. Some girls do like that, but for all the wrong reasons—either they are insecure and needy for attention, or they're control freaks who have a need for dominating guys. Unless you want to sign up for either of those scenarios, focus filling your time with your own friendships, interest, hobbies and goals.
There's no one-size-fits-all solution here. What impresses one girl might make another roll her eyes. Your best bet is to be yourself. Demonstrate a unique skill, talent or something difficult to do that you're proud of like playing guitar and singing in tune at the same time, something that sets you apart from the crowd. Not only will this make her feel good about you, but it can boost your confidence, too. Impress her, but do not boast too much about your great achievements and plans.

Be her friend. Girls don't just fall for random strangers. (Well, some do, but the relationship never goes very far!) If you're in the same Geometry class as her, learn her name. Every time she walks into class, smile at her. Sometimes this is all it takes for a young woman to notice you. At the same time though, don't do this too often! It will just end up looking like you're obsessed with her. But if you talk to other women too, like friends of yours, then she'll see that you're all there. If she doesn't seem to see you, when she walks by, just say "Hi _______." In a friendly way. This way she'll know you exist. If she's shy, she might just smile back, so don't take this as a sign that she doesn't like you! However, if you want your relationship to move ahead, don't get stuck in the quicksand - that is the 'Friend Zone'. Sometimes a girl won't go out with you because she's afraid if the relationship ends badly, she'll lose your friendship! To start moving things along, be a little flirty! A woman will only be intimate with a man she knows, trusts and cares about; and this can only be achieved with time and friendly chat.

Flirt. When you see or meet a girl you like, make brief eye contact and smile. Strike up a casual conversation. Most importantly, relax. The more you talk to girls, the more relaxed you'll become. Don't think of her as the girl of your dreams; don't worry about what will happen if you make a bad joke, or if you have something stuck to your teeth. She may be just as nervous, and small mistakes will likely go unnoticed or be ignored. Enjoy interacting with this attractive, friendly girl whose path crossed yours. Live in the moment. Just be careful that you don't get so caught up in the moment that you say or do something you might regret later.

Talk to her. Tell her what you really enjoy in life, what gets you excited and what gets her excited. Be positive. If you had a bad day, still greet her pleasantly with a big smile. Most importantly, listen to everything she says. Whether she talks about herself, her family, hobbies or anything, pay attention. Some things could be useful or important to know later in the relationship. Nod to show that you're listening, and also respond to what she says so she knows that you really are listening. Women are very appreciative of guys who demonstrate sincere interest in what they say.

Be romantic. The stereotypical icons of romance (roses, candles, chocolate and teddy bears) can only go so far. Think about what really gets that special someone excited. Recognize what makes her unique; find and do things that only she would appreciate. What are her quirky (perhaps secret) interests, obsessions and fantasies? Whenever she's shopping, talking, or watching a movie, what makes her eyes light up? Pay attention! Girls easily notice if you still remember things they told you a long while ago. Being romantic means acknowledging how special a person is, and that means demonstrating that you know—better than anyone else in the world—what makes her unique.

Break the touch barrier. There are several ways to touch a girl without being sleazy. Hold her coat while she puts it on. Offer her your hand when she's stepping on an uneven surface. Hold out your hand so you can lead her through a crowd. If she's worried, put your hand lightly on her shoulder to comfort her. These are all polite ways to get a little closer to someone without being creepy. Women are delicate, even if they put up a tough front, so make sure the touching is light; for example, don't slap her on the back. If you see any signs of discomfort, stop! Otherwise, she'll probably enjoy the affection.

Compliment her. If you really like someone, you probably appreciate a lot of things about her. Why not let her know? If anything is different or new (her hairstyle, nail polish color, shirt) make note of it. The more unique the compliment, the better received it will be, unless she's shallow. Most girls like being complimented on something that makes them distinct, not something that plenty of other women have. If you compliment her appearance, try to be original, perhaps by specifying a particular feature. Better yet, compliment her personality or skills. If you're not sure what's good or bad complimenting, read How to Compliment Girls.

Make her laugh. Telling jokes or funny stories is a classic way to make a person laugh, but not the only one. Find out which are her favorite comedians, funny movies, or sitcoms. Watch them with her. Be bold and think of some antics that will make her laugh. Tell her to dare you to do something, then do it (as long as it's not illegal, of course). Laughter will come by itself if both of you are relaxed and enjoying each others company.

Ask her out. Invite her to go somewhere or do something with you. Make sure it's something that you're both interested in. If you want, show her your world. Bring her somewhere that you feel comfortable and preferably, where you have or do something you're proud of. Alternatively, you can express interest in seeing her world. Is she a musician? Ask if you can see her perform. Is she a mathematician? Ask to read her report or thesis. If you aren't yet ready or comfortable with the idea of sharing your personal lives to that extent, just go out for lunch or do something simple together, maybe with a small group of friends, where you can get to know her better.

Look Good. Work out run a mile or two, do some sit ups, get a six pack, etc. Also get a tan, so when you go to the pool and she is there, she will be like, "wow". Most not all women like a guy with a tan and some muscles, but don't overdo it; girls don't like it when you have too much muscles. That just shows that you love your muscles too much. Older people usually look better with normal facial and neck fat content range.

Give her high value. Women want to feel important and valued; do not pay only two pennies for her when she knows she is worth fifty pennies, figuratively speaking; use only the most difficult contact method that you got that require the greatest effort; do not use a short cheap email note to ask her for her personal information or a date, but ask in person preferably at her home. Not doing this probably leads to no response or rejection of you.

After there’s a bit of mutual attraction , start throwing out low-level “bait” to see if she bites. A good baiting statement should be light and playful, and usually ambiguous. There’s a certain look a woman will give you if you do that right (and if she’s the right girl to begin with). It’s like you gave her the secret handshake. She’ll look back at you for a couple of seconds, wondering if you “get it” or if you just accidentally stumbled on the right words. When she does this, hold eye contact, and don’t react. Wait for her to say the next thing. “Baiting” is how women flirt too, so be on the lookout for things she might be “joking” about or things that could have a double meaning

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