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How to Forget an Impossible Crush?

Forgetting about someone you've had your heart set on can be a challenging task. You need to realize that you deserve someone who adores and appreciates you as much as you do her. You can get over that impossible crush. Evaluating the good and the bad about your crush can make the time you've spent dreaming productive and set you up for future success.

Difficulty:
Moderately Challenging

Instructions


    • 1
      Remove all pictures, videos and memorabilia that you've collected or that even remind you of the other person. Chances are you've stored up a ton of things during your infatuation. Letting go of the physical clutter you've amassed is a good step toward forgetting him altogether.
    • 2
      Quit calling, texting, emailing, IMing and any other form of communication completely. Stop planning run-ins or scheming about how to see her.
    • 3
      Delete him from your networking accounts, like MySpace and Facebook, and at least take him off of speed dial on your phone. If your crush doesn't even know you, delete his number from your phone, as well. Attachment without at least a real friendship requires drastic measures.
    • 4
      Evaluate why you were attracted to this person. Make a list of her pros and cons. Be very specific. Include on the "cons" side that she wasn't interested in you. Keep the list of good qualities as you move on to meeting new people.
    • 5
      Resolve to have a healthy relationship that's based on mutual attraction and respect.

«« Tips & Warnings

»» Taking a moment (or longer) to evaluate why you're attracted to an impossible crush may help you to understand the underlying motivation for why this happened. Not being ready for a relationship is a common reason for choosing someone you'd never end up with.





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