How to Tell If a Guy is Interested?

Men may seem to be a mystery, especially when it comes to what they are feeling. However, even guys give some clues as to what's going on in their heads; you just have to pay attention.

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

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     Pay attention to see if your guy cannot seem to relax around you; it could be a sign that he is interested. He may be feeling pressure to impress you and is preoccupied with making a good impression.
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     Watch to see if he pays attention when you talk. If he brings up things that you said in an earlier conversation, it shows that he is listening to you. Since this is not normally a guy's strong suit, this is a good sign that he is into you.
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     Pay attention to see if when he is with you, he's WITH you. See if he stays focused on you. It's a very positive sign if he isn't distracted by his cell phone, the game or the really cute waitress.
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     Listen for him to say "we" instead of "I." This is a guy's way of testing the waters with you. He is trying to see if you object to him referring to the two of you as a couple.
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     Be aware that if he asks you about a certain restaurant or if you want to see a specific movie, this is a guy's way of asking you out, without having to actually ask. No one likes to be rejected, and this is his way of seeing if you are receptive. If you get the feeling that a guy is fishing for a date, he probably is.
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     Know that if a guy will go somewhere with you when he normally wouldn't be caught dead there, he's definitely into you. If he's into you, he'll be happy to be with you no matter where you are, even if that means patiently holding your purse outside the dressing room while you try on 17 different cocktail dresses.
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     See if he tries to make a good impression with your friends; he's probably interested. Guys know that a girl's close friends have a huge influence on her. If he's into you, he'll make the effort to win them over.
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     Know that if he wants you to meet his friends, he's definitely into you. Guys have a tendency to keep their dating life separate from their friends. If he introduces you to his friends, that's a sign that he thinks that you are awesome and he believes that his friends will think you're awesome, too